I have been a mistress for over 7 years now and I absolutely enjoy it! I remember the day that I told myself I would never let another person have total control over me and since then...I have been on a quest to learn the relationship between the submissive vs.the dominant. I have learned interesting things along the way and I am most happiest when I am dominating someone. Tell me...which side of the fence are you on...submissive or dominant?